I hope that you are well.  Happy Thursday to you.  I hope that the week has been treating you well.  I am super excited about the weekend.  Particularly because I have tons of Virgo birthday's coming up.  Special birthday shout out to my little sisters Stephanie and Ki...

September, just after Labor Day, is one of the best times to travel in the U.S. With vacation season winding down and schools back in session, those who travel from mid-September through October typically enjoy off peak rates and great weather. So if you love the sun b...

Heeeey BITB Family!

I hope that you are well.  Welcome to the new BlackintheBay.com.  I am back and ready to serve you even better than before.  I took a hiatus to get this family life thing going.  Yes my son is already 1.5 yrs. old and I am still learning. I imagine t...

Is your sex life poppin’? Yes, we are openly discussing sex. All of you sensitive, shy folks might want to exit. We won’t get raunchy, but you know how I am. I keep it all the way real with my family. Sex is good for your physical and mental health. It may not always w...

The best part of my life at this time is being comfortable.  That’s right – I am not about “that life” anymore.

What life you may ask — that 4″ stiletto or high heel life. I have turned into a complete wedge wearer.  I need to buy some stock in Aerosoles, that’s how muc...

Soooo – dating after divorce.  This is such a hot topic because unfortunately marriages don’t last like they used to.  There are so many blended families.  I come from one.  Recently, my friends and I were having a conversation about dating.  We realized that as we (wo...